I have never liked this photo. My marriage had just croaked and someone told me to smile. And I did. (Mom, Dad, and my cousin Beth Peterson Ratto.)
"One gets over everything," repeated Wimsey firmly. "Particularly if one tells somebody about it."
The Unpleasantness at the Bellona Club (1928)Dorothy L. Sayers
One of the problems with living a life in the public eye, is that one's public self begins to take on a life of its own. It may be a life that runs alongside your real life, and (if it travels in a wavy line), it can actually intersect your real life at certain points. But a public life cannot be entirely one's own life as--because of its nature--a public life belongs to the public who created it. Not to you.





